Living Through Contrast

a voice for neli Hello to all my readers. I hope this post finds everyone doing well and attracting all that they seek and desire in life. I have not updated my blog in over a year. Not because I didn’t want to, but sometimes life takes over and the time isn’t there.

Although this is my first post in over a year, it is a very important one. In one of my earlier blog posts I wrote about Bumps in the Road of Life . Well my dear friends, I have hit the most major road bump to date. I am working very hard on keeping my vibrational level high, but it has been an extreme challenge. I have and\ 18 year old son who is on the autism spectrum. On May 24, my son was accosted by the local police, arrested and kept in isolation for 11 days, and then transferred to a mental hospital because he became non-responsive. It has been an absolute nightmare for my son as well as our family.

When i started this blog I promised that I would share my spiritual journey good, bad, or indifferent. Because we are all spiritual growth seeking beings, I am doing my best to understand how I attracted this particular set of circumstances. And even more importantly, how can I use this experience to grow and help others who may find themselves in the same situation.

I have set up a website dedicated to giving my son a voice. Please visit A Voice for Neli to learn more details of the tragedy that has struck our family.

His story has been picked up in the Huffington Post as well as Essence Online.

My Plea for Justice


Please send our family positive vibrations and stay in knowing that this too shall pass and our family will receive that justice that is deserved.

In Light and Love

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75 Responses to Living Through Contrast

  1. Ariana

    I’m sorry to hear of the hardships you’re going through and will be sending some positive thoughts your way. I know it can be hard to understand such difficult circumstances, but I think when we’ve worked on our spiritual roots, ultimately we’re better able to navigate the inevitable hardships with strength and grace, and find ways to turn negatives and difficulties into some form of positive that will help other people.

    Hey, but I have some good news for you perhaps for a moment of distraction: Even though you haven’t updated your blog in a year up until now – you’re on page 1 for ‘law of attraction’ out of more than three million pages! Congratulations.
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  2. Scent Magic

    I am so sorry for your challenges right now. I know how difficult it is to stay in the positive vibration at times like this. Perhaps it might be helpful to remember that each of us comes to this physical existence with a different soul purpose. Although your son is experiencing difficulties right now, this situation could in fact be a part of his larger soul purpose in this lifetime. Perhaps your son is here to bring light to the plight of autistic persons everywhere and to raise consciousness about this affliction? If so, although he is faces challenges right now, in the long run he will fulfill a greater soul purpose. That’s hard to accept, more so in watching those we love go through challenges than it is when we ourselves face life’s struggles. But keep faith that this too shall pass and everything really is as it should be in the larger scheme of the Universe. Your son sounds like a joyous and light being and I’m sure that he will be a beacon for millions.

    laura
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  3. Unconditional freedom from Contrasting Ups and Downs

    I find that remaining at peace inside–free from positive or negative emotional reactions to life’s circumstances–while experiencing the extreme opposites of life, seems to be the lesson to learn in all experiences. I figured out a way to create such inner peace though a process I call the unconditional freedom process, and I invite you and your son to listen to a couple of It was wise of you to openly share about your challenges.

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  4. The Intentional Sage

    Who nows why this is happening or (why not) things aren’t happening the way we want them to… All that can be known is the present moment. In time, things will make sense.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    The Intentional Sage
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  5. Accounting Courses

    As we venture through life, we always go through things, good or bad, which sometimes we didn’t want to have or to experience. However, I firmly believe that everything has a purpose. I can’t say I completely understand the way you are feeling right now especially the difficulties that you are undertaking but, somehow, I know those are just set of challenges and eventually you will be over it. Keep your faith.

  6. Zane

    may God help your son and your family to pass this unpleasant life challenge, Iam sending all my positive thoughts to you , oh even your blog has not updated for long you still on page one , God bless
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  7. Personal Development With Purpose

    My heart and prayers are with you and your family.
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  8. Ken

    My thoughts and prayers with you during this difficult period.

    You mentioned “How did I attract this.” I don’t believe you attracted this into your life, as this situation is not your life.

    The fact that you are working to give him a voice through your new blog will hopefully give you the strength and attract the right people to help you overcome this injustice.

    God Bless you for a quick and positive outcome.

  9. Marilyn

    My family don’t believe in co-incidence so I am sure I was sent here for a reason. One day people will realise just how gifted and Magnifecent Autistic children are. In the mean time may I recomend a book written by Ester, Jerry and Abraham Hicks called The Autistic Revolution Children In The Time of Awakening.
    It may bring you comfort and bring you to an awareness of your roll with your wonderful son. My family will send loving energy and healing to you and your family.
    May I also recomend the music of Francine Jarry at http://www.rainbowmusic.ca you will find great comfort in her voice and the words of her songs. My family play her music every day.
    I know your son would wish for your family to leave the past behind and live each moment, by moment, because as long as you hold on to the injustice that you are feeling you will not be able to move forward with your lives.
    Please do not think that I have no commpassion I feel for you and your son. I have been in some pretty horrid situations myself having grown up in an Orphanage, but I now appreciate all that has transpired my life. It has brought me to where I am today and helped me to become a stronger and more caring vibrational Being.
    Love & Power
    Marilyn, Jason & Keanu

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  12. Jia Bin

    Hi Lisa
    I’m sorry that you are going through tough times in your life, hope you are still doing well. I will be praying for you.
    Your determination also help me see that I must be strong in my circumstances also (I’m also going through a rough phase in life right now), but let us keep on keeping on, continue to confess the positive. Let us bring ourselves to a better future, and it shall come to pass!

    Have strength, my friend!
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  13. Rob

    Hi Lisa,

    Sending you and your wonderful family those positive vibrations in abundance.

    Warm regards
    Rob
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  14. Nevin

    I just saw the trailer on the film “How Thoughts become Things” and thought it was worth talking about here. I think this will be a great movie. The website talks about deeper lessons into The Law of Attraction, using Neuroscience and modern Psychology. The film is being made by Douglas Vermeeren who did The Opus. I am interested to know everyones thoughts. Since Rhonda Byrne has put out her book “The Power” and has apparently has no intention of doing another movie like “The Secret” is this movie the next step for all of humanity?

    Here’s the website http://www.Howthoughtsbecomethings.com

  15. Create My Mind Movie

    Hey Lisa,

    I’m so sorry to hear about the difficulties you and your son are having. Life challenges us in so many ways and even though it may be difficult there are many things to learn. Sending you and your family very positive vibrations. All is well.

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    I hope things get better for you and your son. Remember to visualize and try to feel good. I’m sure you’re already doing this. I hope Neil is doing ok.

  17. Sandra

    Hi Lisa,

    Life does have a way of making us step back and take a pause, and I’m sure that whatever is to be learned from this experience will find it’s way to you.

    Remain positive, keep faith and know that you are not alone. God and your friends are with you. Always be blessed and prosperous.

    Sandra
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  18. Jamie

    Wow! What a situation. I get frustrated when people treat people and situations with anger anf viloence. I have a relative that is autistic. I would like to know how you remain positive…in order for the law of attraction to continue working. Have you had successes lately?
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  19. Sandra

    Hi Lisa,

    You were on my mind today. Hope you and your family are doing well and things are going as want them to. Be blessed and hang in there.

    Sandra
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  20. Wendy

    Life is so hard sometimes. Hope you will be posting again soon. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

    Love and Blessings,

    Wendy
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  21. David

    Sadly we all have struggles, but I’m sure you will get through yours.

    David.

  22. Rob

    Hope all is going well Lisa, wishing you abundance!
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  23. rajkumar bhandari

    I am interested to know everyones thoughts. It has brought me to where I am today and helped me to become a stronger.
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  24. Emrick

    May you be showered with Peace and Love.
    Make sure you keep visualizing good outcomes.
    Ask, Believe, Receive.
    Blessings,
    Emrick

  25. Shawn

    Everything will be fine lisa. May you have a wonderful life with full of abundance. Free your mind!
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  26. Idan

    I hope everything works out fine, and that in the future you will see how this was all a beneficial experience for you.

    Idan.

  27. Abundance NYC

    Lisa, While surfing the web for some information I came across your site and read your story. You are in my prayers.

    Many Blessings to you.

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  29. Emrick

    If you keep visualizing a favorable outcome, it will come. when you visualize the outcome, make sure you feel as you would as if it already accomplished.
    blessings,
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  30. Shana

    Sorry to hear about your situation and my prayers are with you. Life sometimes no matter how well we think we have it down to an exact science will still give you the odd curve ball for which there is no explanation.

    Keep up the good work as a positive home will attract more of the positive stuff.

  31. Law of Attraction

    I’m really sorry to hear about this. I wish you and your son all the best and hope you can resolve this issue quickly. As Shana mentioned above, keep focusing on the positive and be strong! Felix

  32. Yourself

    Absolutely, focus on the positive.

  33. Sennaya Swamy

    I m sorry for the situation but in life there are always a bright and dark days which we have to over come and this is the moment where you can show your strength and power to the dark to run away leaving only bright :)

  34. Jessica

    i am very sorry to hear that from you , but just keep on pray God never give us trails that we cannot handle it.just always remember there is always life after all.
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  35. Yvonne

    I have just discovered your site today and I find you and your writings very thoughtful and inspirational. My heart goes out to your son, your family and you. Everything happens for a reason and I believe you had to write about and share this for others to see and feel something they haven’t seen or felt before. As you wrote, “the only constant is change” – This too, shall change and bring about a better understanding.
    Much love!

  36. jarri

    Great article. This is such an inspiring one. Life indeed is unpredictable. there are ups and downs. But despite this mere fact, let us always think positive and look at the brighter side of life. Hoping to read more of your articles.
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  37. Mark Galsburg

    Awesome content! I’m really glad I found lotusessence! As a Law of Attraction Coach I’m always looking for new insights and perspectives on New Age thought. Thanks for sharing. :)

  38. donna

    Hey Lisa, what an inspirational article you wrote darling. Look, don’t ever be worried. You know what, Life is so much unpredictable. Sometimes it gets harder to turn around. Be patient and strong, you must will survive. Take care, huh.
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  39. Santi.simo

    I discovered your site just today and this post is very inspiring.
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  40. mah_fatti

    people go through a lot of tough times,,,but eventually evrything will turn out fine…it seems too unacceptable sometimes but we have to face reality..being strong and confident of getting through is the key.
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  41. Kyla Mae

    I am sorry to hear this from you, everyone of us will come up rough times in life and i do believed that God never give us trails that we can’t handle it just continue life i now that there is good thing in future.
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  42. Ashley

    Be happy no matter what life takes you. It is just part of everyone’s life but in different circumstances. Go on with your life and take it as a lesson.
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  43. Noronissa

    I am new from this site and i am sorry to hear from your son.i suggest take it easy everything has a reason why things happen.and there is life after all and have brighter future.cheer up!
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  44. Jardin Smith

    I feel truly sorry for what have happened to your son. You are the pillar of the family, you must stay positive so that the family will go through the hardest times.
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  45. Marie Cabagi

    Sorry to hear about your son but don’t worry everything will be okay in the future, i suggest just keep on positive.and there should be a reason why that happen.
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  46. Katerine Miles

    Everything has a purpose,God give us trail which make as strong person,just stay positive and everything will be okay.
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  47. Matt Deloff

    Great post….all things have purpose….look for the positive in everything and you will be ok

  48. saradane

    Each of us has her own burden to carry. Family problem, financial, emotional problem, but yours is not unique in a way. Having autistic kids just bring out good things about being a family and your being you. It brings out patience, unconditional love and being prayerful. Don’t look at it as a setback, your son is a blessing.
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  49. Emily

    I have neighbor here and her son is autistic i can see that each time pass they make there son enjoy and they love it so much, until one day things happen that God get her son yes it is sad but at least the kids is rest.and i am sure u can move on too there is always a great future ahead…
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  50. Hellenna Jones

    Everyone of us has our own sorrow and God gives to us because he knows that we can handle it.just always remember there is always rainbow after the rain…
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  51. Jaira

    I am really sorry to hear that from you, Be strong and always remember that only god knows all the reasons why it happen to your son. Thanks for inspiring me.
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  52. Wennilou

    Great post you inspired many people this article, Thanks
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  53. Jardin Smith

    Hi, i wondered is everything alright on your side?
    I hope things are getting better right now.

    do update us ok?
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  54. Thomas

    Just be positive always and positive vibes will be into you and your family…
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  55. Lydia

    Don’t worry, there is good reason behind it…Bright on the brighter side…
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  56. Nicka

    Sorry to hear that, Its hard for you in that situation but you don’t need to worry be always strong and trust GOD i know that GOD had a good plan behind it.
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  57. Dadah

    This post made me inspired, its really sad to hear from you about your son be strong always, I know had a good reason behind this.
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  58. Sally Thompson

    I admire your insights.. Love to visit your blog more often!
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  59. Joseph

    You are a great mom for doing this to your son as well as helping moms who are also unfortunate. Continue with what you are doing since you are inspiring a lot of people and stay strong. I hope that things are much better now for you and your son.
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  61. Pazz law len

    Everything has purpose, God give us trials , so be strong its hard but we need.
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  62. Nancy

    I’m doing Ho’oponopono for your family and hoping that you do it too. http://www.mindbridge-loa.com/hooponopono.html

    This is how I can accept 100% responsibility. I don’t know why this was manifest for you and your son, and for me….
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  63. gold

    My prayers are with you, may god help your son and your family to surpass this challenge in your life. God gave you that kind of challenge, because he knows that you can surpass it.Just remain strong and don’t lose hope, everything will be fine Lisa.
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  65. gracia19

    Sad to hear regarding your circumstances my prayers are with you. Life sometimes no matter how fine we imagine we contain it down to a correct knowledge will still give you the strange situation for which there is no explanation.
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  66. Clara

    Praying that you and your son will come through this as victors. The hardest thing to do in this world is live. Remember that you are a spiritual being having an earthly experience. Blessings!
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  67. Marquitta

    I hope you feel better now..I am really sad the circumstances in your life..God gave you the kind trials!Keep it up may god bless always..
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  68. Holly Alexander

    Hi Lisa,

    I’m so sorry to hear about the difficulties that you and your son had to face. Just stay positive always that this trials that your family had to face will come to pass. Just stay strong for your son and keep on fighting. You are never alone in this battle.
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  69. Shela

    Sorry to hear that from you.Keep on praying.Hold on to our God,he is always there to carry our heavy loads.Trust God in all ways of your life..May God bless you always!
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  71. Brooke Baker

    I am very sorry to hear about the circumstances that you and your family had to face. Stay strong. Things will be better soon.
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