One of the things that we most desire in this world is to be loved.  The desire for a loving partner to share our existence and life experiences with are, for most people, one of their top priorities in life.  From a very young age, we are conditioned to believe that finding that perfect mate will greatly enhance our life and make us happy.  Can the Law of Attraction be used to draw that perfect union to us that we so desire?  Well of course it can.  But before I get into specific details, it’s important that I qualify some expectations regarding finding love.  First and foremost, contrary to what most of us have been led to believe, finding love does not make us happy.   There is no such thing as “finding” love.  We are love and love exists within us effortlessly.  The only love that truly brings us happiness is not found “out there” in another human.  That love exists right inside of us.  This important key is unfortunately what keeps us from truly finding that special person to share our lives with.  People are looking for someone to complete them, fix the, make them whole,  make them feel special, and make them happy.  The reality is, if you don’t already feel those things on your own then therein lies the problem.   No one is meant to complete another.  We have to come to the table already whole.  The goal of a successful relationship is two whole people coming together and enhancing each others’ lives......... Read more

What is LOVE??  What does it truly mean to love to someone? What exactly does it mean to love yourself?  Love is one of the most powerful emotions that we experience in our lives.   And yet it seems that we are always searching for it.  Why are we searching though, when love lives within us?  Love can bring us a tremendous amount of joy and happiness, as well as pain.  This is where things get confusing.  Love is not supposed to hurt or feel negative in any way.    So then why does it hurt sometimes?  When we love someone, it seems that they have a power over us.  So when that someone that we love does something that does not line up with our expectations, we feel hurt, we feel let down.  We get angry.  But real love does not really feel this way.  This is something that I’ve had to learn and re-learn many times over.  Love is not conditional.  Love is everlasting.  It just is.  Truly loving is not neediness or the allowing of others to violate us in any way......... Read more

I wanted to tell you today that you are perfect, whole and complete.  Just as you are.  Even as you grow each day, you are perfection now.  People are always there to criticize us and find fault in the things that we do, so why do we do it to ourselves too?  Actually, we can be harder on ourselves than anyone else, trust me, I know from experience! J  Today I want to tell you that I love you and I want you to say that to yourself too.  Be your best YOU, even if for just a moment.  Do not be afraid to let your light shine.  Do not be afraid of change or to grow.  We are growth seeking beings and it is our nature to seek more.  But love yourself as you are right now.  Today, I want you to say to yourself, “I LOVE YOU”!!   I want to share with you today, one of my most favorite quotes ever.  It’s by Marianne Williamson in her book “A Return to Love” and has become like a mantra in my life.  ........ Read more

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